Trying is Contagious | Week 52 | Confidence Revolution

You have grown by leaps and bounds this year and I am so thrilled for you!

The stories you've shared with me via email are heart-warming, inspiring, and all the fuel I need to keep going.

There are so many things I'd like to share with you before I go on hiatus (guys, I have 3 weeks left until our due date but contractions started last night!) 
 

But for now I'll say keep trying. Trying is underrated. The ONE thing that all the greats ( no matter how one defines 'the greats' ) is that they all TRIED. 

The more you try, the more you will believe in yourself and then - and then this domino effect happens with those around you - and they also begin trying. It's a beautiful thing to watch unfold. 

You can positively impact your life and your corner of the world - just by trying. 

Enjoy today, you deserve it! Happy New Year!

love and grace, catia

You have grown by leaps and bounds this year and I am so thrilled for you! The stories you've shared with me via email are heart-warming, inspiring, and all the fuel I need to keep going.

Want me to speak to your group or company? I'd love to! Click here and I'll pencil you in. Here's a testimonial. 

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This is Embarassing | Week 50 | Confidence Revolution

My entire life I wanted to be discovered.

From a very young age I had visions of an agent plucking me out of obscurity and taking me to the big time.

Guys, I AM SO DEAD SERIOUS.

I’d go on family vacations with my folks and brothers and as early as age 9 – I’d sit by the pool with a book or walk on the beach, or laugh in just the right way ( I know – embarrassing!) so that JUST IN CASE there was a talent agent nearby – I WOULD BE READY.


I heard stories of girls getting discovered and being on rocket ships to stardom. And so I just knew that I would be able manifest the same. “Any moment now, any moment now, any….”

Radio silence…for years.

Why had those girls gotten discovered and not me?

I desperately wanted a crane to drop in, scoop me up and place me into this new “I had made it life.”

For decades I wanted this…until sometime in the last 6 months – I had a flash of wisdom – flashes come to me once in a while. ;)

My journey was not about someone discovering me, my journey was about me DISCOVERING MYSELF.

Along the way I have pushed myself and done things my skill set deemed unlikely if not impossible. Some of my favorites were: being drum major in high school (I was an okay musician– but not great), getting a master’s degree (I was naturally a B student), running a marathon (I am a terrible but determined runner), building a web site (I taught myself from scratch), and writing a book (I sat my butt down and wrote every day for 1 year).

My journey is about me discovering what I am made of. And it hasn’t been easy, but it’s been BEYOND rewarding.

If the talent agent, the crane, had come and picked me up out of obscurity – I may not have developed a sense of duty, determination and tenacity. I may not have ever pushed myself. I may not have figured out what I was capable of. I may have gotten to “the big show” and crumbled because I hadn’t built up my inner self!

If you’re out there wanting to be discovered or validated – I’m here to say – You’re the one. You’re the one who is going to have to SHOW UP. And once you’ve shown yourself that YOU CAN – no can take that away from you. No one can take away your struggles and triumphs and that unshakable sense of confidence. You can stand taller because YOU ARE.

I finally gave up wanting to be discovered – but I stayed on the yellow brick road to my discovery – and I am all the better for it. I know who I am, I know what I can do and I know what I can give – and I know that I can always figure it out.

And that’s what I want for you – I want you to know that you strong and that you can make it and that you can always figure it out.

love and grace, catia


My entire life I wanted to be discovered. From a very young age I had visions of an agent plucking me out of obscurity and taking me to the big time. Guys, I AM SO DEAD SERIOUS.

Want me to speak to your group or company? I'd love to! Hit "reply" on this email and I'll pencil you in. Here's a testimonial. 

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