To be trusted enough to accompany people through their lives is a blessing and privilege I don’t take lightly. I get to see and hear stories that are so tender and sacred. I get to hold space for people as they unravel ideas and hurts and create the lives they want. It takes my breath away.

Yesterday I presided over the wedding ceremony between two genuinely outstanding people with a beautiful love story. The room was filled with joy and tears, and authenticity. To get to write a ceremony for Vanessa and TC and then help them start their marriage was a dream come true.

This is the 3rd wedding I’ve presided over, and I look forward to many more. Here’s to friendship and love and uplifting one another, always.

Professional photos by @crystalkellyphotography

If you’re looking for someone to marry you - and you want your ceremony infused with love, respect, togetherness, and beauty — send me a note! I’d love to walk with you through this magical season.

Writing the ceremony for Christa and Divy and then performing the marriage ceremony was humbling and exciting and a fantastic opportunity to love two people into their next chapter. Not with a sense of expected perfection but with hope, strength, and love for who they are and their marriage.

If you’re looking for someone to marry you - and you want your ceremony infused with love, respect, togetherness, and beauty — send me a note! I’d love to walk with you through this magical season.

I was honored to preside over the baptism of a sweet and very loved child, Luca. His parents are good friends and they asked me to create a ceremony that would baptize him in unity, family, and love.

It was my honor to create a ceremony that highlighted love, justice, community, and wonder. It was so special. It was true and full of love and commitment.

We were ocean side and under the warmth of the sun and surrounded by family and friends that traveled from the US, Brazil, and Germany.

I even said one line in Portuguese and one in German! 😂

This prayer was part of the ceremony. I think it’s applicable to all of us.

Give us the child who lives within:
✨The child who Trusts
✨The child who Imagines,
✨The child who Sings.
✨The child who receives without reservation,
✨The child who gives without judgment.
✨Give us a child's eyes, that we may receive the beauty and freshness of this day like a sunrise;
✨Give us a child's ears, that we may hear the music of mythical times;
✨Give us a child's heart, that we may be filled with wonder and delight;
✨Give us the child's faith, that we may be cured of our cynicism;
✨Give us the spirit of a child, who is not afraid to need; who is not afraid to love.

If you are looking for a wedding or baptism ceremony officiant. I’d love to guide you and your loved ones through these beautiful life stages. ❤️❤️

You can reach me at catia@catiaholm.com

Decide who you want to be and go for it. Be who you want to be.

A lot of things in my life don’t add up. I do a little of this and a little of that. I get curious and go for it.

Writing the ceremony for my brother and sister-in-law’s wedding and then performing the marriage ceremony was humbling and exciting and an amazing opportunity to love two people into their next chapter. Not with a sense of expected perfection but with hope and strength and love for who they each are and for their marriage.

I love people in all sorts of ways. I write I speak, I’ve taught gym classes, run restaurant And bars, one-on-one coaching, fitness training, performing marriage ceremonies, and soon, therapist!! The 💜WHAT💜 I’m doing changes, but the how and why never do.

If you’re looking for someone to marry you - and you want your ceremony infused with love, respect, togetherness, and beauty — send me a note! I’d love to walk with you through this magical season.